If you have conflict in your relationship the first thing to know is that conflict is a part of relationships. All of them. Healthy conflict resolution leads to healthy relationships.  The opposite is also true. Sometimes the solution is as simple as learning how to better communicate.  Or it can be deeper than that, like choosing to forgive one another. And yet other times it can be as difficult as trying to decide if you're doing too much or not enough - or if you should stay or if you should go.